In searching for Valentine’s gifts this year, I am shocked at both the extent that stores go to market the holiday and at the shallowness of the gifts themselves. Seriously, is giving a heart shaped box of cheap chocolates really going to help showcase the full extent of my appreciation to my Sweetheart? Is a teddy bear that has a red ribbon around it that says “Love me” going to do anything other than question why she is with someone like me? And is anything that says “Will you be mine?” not speak in some way as viewing her as an object to own instead of the wonderful partner that she is?
Look, maybe these gifts work for some, and there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s just that I was spoiled, I suppose, by being able to get her the perfect gift last year. It was truly a Valentine’s gift to remember and, once again, will be the way that I show the true depth of my love for her this year as well.
Happy Valentine’s Day!